Tuesday, June 7, 2016

Lake Life

Thomas was traveling for work Wednesday - Friday last week, so the Nanas (two of my aunts) drove up from Georgia and Tennessee to stay at our house and help out with the boys. It's actually totally manageable at this point for one parent to keep them but the Nanas hadn't seen the boys in a while and missed them and wanted to come up, so the timing worked out well. Wednesday morning, right before the Nanas were planning to leave their house to drive up, Carole offered to let us come to her lake house for the weekend. I was a little on the fence about whether to go, since the Nanas were coming up, Thomas wouldn't get home until 11 PM on Friday night (so I wasn't sure if he would want to come to the lake at all), we had just been in Jacksonville last weekend, it all just seemed like too much. But I decided to call Aunt Mary Nell to see if they would want to do the lake thing. She was excited and was all into it, which made me excited, too! I reached out to Thomas and convinced him that he could sleep in on Saturday after his travels, then do whatever  yard work he needed to do and then come up to the lake. Our dog sitter and our next door neighbors were both out of town, so Thomas wasn't going to be able to spend the weekend at the lake, but I knew he would have fun to at least come up and spend the day with us on Saturday. Plus, I knew we would be missing him and would be ready to see him after his trip! We also invited MaSha to come up because she loves the lake and has been traveling as well and hadn't seen the boys in over a week.

So, long story short, Carole invited us to the lake and we decided to go and bring the whole gang! We went to the lake for a weekend last year, too. Here's your refresher on that: Water Babies at Camp Keowee.

Lake Keowee is so beautiful!

We ended up leaving Friday afternoon so we could spend the evening there at Keowee. Apart from a little hoopla involving jumper cables and a trip to Advanced Auto for a new battery for Aunt Mary Nell, we had a quick and easy drive up there.  The boys were supposed to nap for the majority of the drive, and they all fell asleep at times, but we had shortened naps for all 3 on Friday. When we arrived, we got the cars unloaded, I gave the Nanas a tour of the house, I worked a bit, and we just relaxed.


Ryan laying with Nana Wanda
He loves laying on her!

Stokes "working"
Thank goodness my computer was locked.

Dinner time on the deck!

We fed the boys a quick dinner and after they ate, it will still light enough and hot enough that we changed them into their swimsuits, put on their sunscreen and went out to the water. We kept Ryan up on the dock (and eventually back in the house) since I was the only adult in the water for most of the time, but eventually Mary Nell put her swim suit on and got in as well. Stokes and William both wore their puddle jumpers and had such a blast! They loved "swimming" (aka floating) around and going up the ladder, jumping (while holding Mama's hand) in the lake and then up the ladder over and over again!
Pretty water
After about 1.5 hours of swimming, we got the boys to come back to the house, bathed them and got them to bed. I only brought one pack n play, so I put Stokes and William in the bottom bunk of a bunk bed, which is super low to the ground and put pillows on the floor beside the bed, in case they were to roll out. I put them both under the covers with their blankets. I put Ryan in the pack n play in the same room with his blanket too. After only getting a short nap and all the swimming they had done, they were EXHAUSTED. When I asked them who they wanted to pray for as part of our typical nighttime routine, Stokes replied, "No prayers. Light off". HA! They literally must have fallen asleep instantly because by the time I closed the door, walked up the stairs and turned on the monitor, it was silent.

Sweet brothers snuggling
Their first foray with a real bed was ok. Stokes ended up getting smooshed by William's desire to spread out and he eventually rolled out of the bed and started crying. I was sleeping in a bigger bed in the same room, so I just picked him up and put him into bed with me. In hindsight, I should have made a different decision, because the rest of the night was spent moving, rolling, kicking, wanting to be held, on and on. I don't know what time it was, but at some point early in the morning (maybe 6ish), he got off my bed and went over to the bunk bed. I thought he was going to crawl in there and go back to sleep (stupid thought) because he went over to wake William up. Then both of them got into bed with me and there was definitely no more sleep to be had. There was fighting over who was being held, hitting, (unintentionally) pulling Mama's hair, switching places and rolling around. I was pretty tired, but once we heard voices upstairs, I completely gave up the thought of any more sleep and we all got up.

Saturday morning was very chill. The boys pretty much wanted to go swimming as soon as they saw the water, but we hung out on the deck for a while. Carole arrive that morning and we were so glad to see Mimi (as the kids call her)!

Nana holding Ryan

Stokes looking at a boat going by
We got back in the water with Stokes and William for a while before lunch and they had a blast again.
Right around lunch time, Thomas and MaSha arrived so we all sat down for some sandwiches, chips and fruit.

Stokes, MaSha, William, Carole, Ryan and Nana
When the boys took their afternoon naps, Thomas and I got out on the water while Mimi, MaSha and the Nanas hung out on the deck talking and listening to the monitor for us. All that swimming makes nap time a breeze! Then after they woke up, we stayed on the deck for a while. Those boys keep us laughing and they're very entertaining!

MaSha and William

Dada holding Stokes
It start clouding up, so we all came inside just before the rain hit. Thomas and I had left some floats on the dock when we were swimming earlier and the wind from the storm blew them back into the water and over to some other docks in the cove where Carole's house is. William was distraught. He wasn't crying or anything, but couldn't stop talking about Mimi's floats and saying, "Oh no!". He found Nana Wanda's phone and was calling PAW Patrol (his favorite show right now) to help get Mimi's floats back! He had us all in stitches!

Calling PAW Patrol

VERY concerned about the floats

Rest assured, as soon as the rain stopped, Thomas and I took the paddle board and got the floats back for Mimi. The boys were on the deck watching and cheering for us. So cute!

The sky cleared up and we decided to take a boat ride! This was the little guys's first time on a boat and they thought it was pretty cool! Ryan loved feeling the wind on his face. Stokes and William were especially into "driving" the boat while sitting on Mimi's lap. This created some drama and tears when it was time to share and take turns driving. Wowzers. Tired toddlers - YIKES.

On our way to the boat

Stokes with MaSha

William with the Nanas

Ryan sitting with me

Our Captain, Mimi!

Beautiful day on the lake

HAHAHAHA
Dada and Ryan

Stokes, Dada and Ryan

William driving
Dont' worry, the keys were out at this point

Such a big boy
We stopped in a peaceful cove and did some swimming and floating. Ryan got in the water finally and loved it! He had this awesome life jacket on and we would put him on his back so he could feel the water in his hair and he would kick his legs like his life depended on it! He's definitely picking up on things and understands some of what we say because when he was being still, I would tell him, "Kick, Ryan" and those little legs would start going again! This happened several times so I really feel like he knew what we were saying!

Ryan was loving the water!





After we were done swimming, we all got back in the boat and headed back to Mimi's house.

Ryan loved the water and the boat!

Stokes driving with Mimi

Family pic!

William driving with Mimi

The lake is just gorgeous!

The Nanas had a great time!
Here they are with Ryan

It was good that we got back when we did, because right when we got in the house, it started raining again. We picked the most perfect time to go on a boat ride!
We got the boys bathed while dinner was heating up, and then we all ate dinner together. Thanks again, Carole, for the lasagna and salad. It was so yummy!

Saturday night's sleeping arrangement went much better. I put Stokes and William back in the bunk bed, but put their heads on opposite ends of the bed. This way, William wasn't rolling around all over Stokes and they each had plenty of room. It worked like a charm and every slept great!

Sunday morning was a bit sad because our fun weekend was coming to a close. We had a delicious breakfast that MaSha prepared for us and then had to start packing up and loading cars. Before we got too far along though, Mimi found some old bread in the freezer and took the boys out to feed the fish. Then we walked around the lake area and the boys got to play in a little playhouse. It is such a pretty area!

Nana playing with Ryan

Stokes looking out at the lake

Feeding the fish with Mimi


Lots of fun!

MaSha strolling with the boys

Cute little playhouse!

My sweet baby!!!

Pretty garden

Ryan was having FUN!

Kisses for brother

My precious boys

MaSha with the boys

Nana with the boys

Love them all!

The weekend was definitely a lot of fun. We are so grateful to Mimi for allowing us to get up to her lake house for sun and fun! I loved having my Aunts here with us and always get a bit sad when it's time for them to leave. 

Saturday, June 4, 2016

Cruisin'

Enjoy this song while reading the post (it's a personal fave of mine!). This version is from the movie "Duets".


Ryan has been working a lot on cruising in his physical therapy appointments twice a week. His therapist, Ashley, will have him stand up holding on to a table and she will help him move his feet side to side one by one and he will move his hands accordingly to keep up with the direction in which he's moving. He seemed like he was doing a little better each time, but this is a skill that he's been working on for several months now.

We started noticing over the last week or so that he was moving - on his own - around the coffee table. I would stand him up there (by the way, he can stand on his own as long as he is holding on to something stable) at the coffee table in the living room while I was cooking dinner or doing laundry or something! After I was done or had a break in whatever task I was doing, I would look over and he would be still standing, but in a different spot than where I'd put him. I would make a mental note and then continue doing whatever it was and when I would look again, he's be in another spot! I knew he was cruising but never got to witness it firsthand. The same thing was happening with Layla this past week, where she knew he was cruising but didn't actually see it.

Yesterday we had a PT appointment with Ashley, and his EI April was there as well, and we all got to witness the "inch stone" of Ryan cruising with our own eyes. I took a few videos before my storage was full (blast!) and then Ashley took a few and sent them to me.

Behold!!! Ryan is CRUISING (and "I love it when we're cruisin' together"!!!)





Friday, June 3, 2016

Goodbye to Lala

Layla, or Lala as the boys affectionately call her, our nanny, had her last day with us today. She's been with us for about a year and a half and the boys have really grown to love her and feel safe, secure and comfortable with her. She's been very dependable and trustworthy and we're grateful to have had her in our lives.

Picture of Lala and the boys taken earlier this week

We did a few crafts and projects for her as a way to say "thank you; we'll miss you; and don't forget about us!" I found these on Pinterest (which, God help us, makes everything look so easy and perfect - how annoying) and while they may not be Pinterest-worthy, I still think they turned out pretty cute!

Owl picture on canvas - owls are handprints
Stokes is orange, Ryan is blue and William is red

Pineapple on burlap tote bag
The pineapple top is handprints

Framed pic of Layla and the boys
 Here they are giving her the gifts!

Stokes handing her the canvas

I think she liked them :)
Before she left, I wanted to get a few more pictures of her with the little guys.

Ryan, Lala, William and Stokes

Cute crew

I jumped in for a pic as well!
We had plans to come up to the lake, so we let Layla go a few hours early on her last day. As we got the cars loaded up, we had a final goodbye with Lala.


Kisses 



It feels a bit bittersweet knowing that Layla won't be showing up on Monday morning. I know the boys will definitely miss her.

If you're wondering what will happen to the boys now that Layla is leaving, well just stayed tuned. I will post soon about the next chapter in our story.